Can a trauma bond become healthy? (5 talking points)

A trauma bond can turn healthy, but knowing the signs make it easier for yourself and your partner, moving forward.

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Can a trauma bond become healthy?

It’s possible to have a healthy relationship from a trauma bond, it’s highly unlikely though.

There are traits that you should look for to confirm that you’re in a trauma bond relationship, they’re:

Although these are the traits of a trauma bond, it’ll be best to just understand what makes a healthy love.

Mirroring in a trauma bond induced relationship is when the behavior of the victim is mimicked by the abuser.

This stage is when facades are put up by the abuser, making the victim think things will change, but leads to broken promises.

I like to use movies to draw parallels to real life, and there’s one that relates best to an abusive trauma bond, Beauty and the Beast.

Did you know it’s actually normal to feel like a healthy love is weird?

It’s definitely possible to gain a healthy love, but it does help to identify the makings of a trauma bond.

Again, they’re:

I also have other love and happiness related posts you can read.

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